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Ben’s example to me and others has taught me much through his 27 years. Most of all, he has been an example of standing up for what you believe to be right, taking advantage of learning opportunities, and giving help and assistance to those in need.

In his last few hours, we held each other’s hands in a semi-tight grip, patted and rubbed each other, expressed our love for each other, and said “good by’”. That I will never forget and always cherish.

He will be sorely missed, never forgotten, and always an influence of good.
Plans for the viewing and funeral are not yet final. I will post up letting you know when they are.

Also, I would like you all to know how thankful I have been for this board, it’s good members, and your many kind words and thoughts. They have helped much. I would like to especially thank MGB and Dr. Flinn for helping out with my one last fishing trip with Ben. That sure was great to get in a few last good memories. Now … I need a good fishing trip to shake this off a bit. [/#002850][/size][/font]
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Coot,

I am very dened to hear about the loss of your son. It sounds like he had great family support in his last days, and it's good that you had the chance to spend time with him.

My family will say a prayer and light a candle in honor of Ben tonight at my twins baptism.

Be well OC,

Tyler
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Coot,

Sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds like he was one of a kind. Evidently the good lord felt he was needed more up there than down here. Its hard to understand and harder to accept. Just keep in mind that the lord has a beautiful garden in heaven, he sometimes will take the beautiful flowers here and add them to his garden there. It is a true tribute to you as his father, that you raised him worthy enough for him to be an example to all those who knew and loved him. Remember he will always be with you. I lost my Dad 18 months ago. He was also my fishing buddy. (His last heart attack was at Soldier Creek) I like to think that he is still giving me suggestions on where to fish. And I constantly feel him with me.
I pray that you will continue to be blessed by Ben's memories and accompanied by his spirit.

God bless you and your family,

Randy
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[font "Comic Sans MS"][red][size 4] Ralph, you need to know that you are your family are in my family's thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your son, I don't know if I could deal with that very well. But you are strong, my friend and I know you will and your family will be fine . God bless Ben, and you and your family.[/size][/red][/font]
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OLD COOT,

I am so sorry to here about your son,I can't imagine the pain you and your family is going thru.My family's hearts and prayers go out to you.
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[font "Comic Sans MS"][black][size 3]My condolences, Old Coot. Hoping the best for you and your family.[/size][/black][/font]
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Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
The memories of your son will be a great comfort to you.
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I wish you and your family all the best. Anytime you want to fish bearlake, let me know.

Jason
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Ralph, my condolences to you and your family during this trying time.
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I am very sorry to hear of your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and his family.
The memories of your last fishing trip together will last along time.
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Man, I dont have the words. My condolences to you and your family. I have you in my thoughts in this trying time!
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My condolences to you and your family .
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Ralph, my condolences to you and your family. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. TM
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[cool][#0000ff]A parent should never have to bury a child. Hope that time and the support of friends and family speeds the healing process.[/#0000ff]
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you have my condolences for the loss of your son.
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My condolences for your loss. May the last hours you had with Ben be a comfort to you in the years to come ... his spirit will continue to be with you!
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I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure he's in a place where all the fish are big and always biting. Thoughts and prayers to you.
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I'm not much for words, but i send my families deepest condolences and should say that atleast he will not be in pain anymore.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers goes out to you and your family. I truly hope that you find confort and relief in the comminng days. God bless you Ralph.
Marty
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