05-28-2003, 04:45 PM
YESSA THERE GUY!! i hopeAND PRAY, yourstill doin good now. i know what your sayin, cause my ma was disabled all her life, and i took care of her. i,ve seen all the symptoms, mentally emotionally and physicaly,which you went thru, that went with it, and the pain, but i believe it bonded us far more than most mother daughters, and this has with you and your wife and that,s what makes a mariage. it also does between a mother daughter too.I GUESS itFElt LIKE A MARRIAGE,betwixt me and ma. it did. there,s a sayin, you feel what they feel, well i believe it. i was daughter mother siter, and the bad ass. when ya have to have tough love. ya figure what i mean? that,s seems like what your wife did and that was good! haha but it is good that you appreciate her and love her that much. it seems good to hear it cause to me, when ya marry it should be till death do ya part. and there,s too many now days say it,s easier not to try to make things wwork in a marrige. just give up. and to me that,s wrong. more power to ya. proud of ya. . when somethin like this happens, it puts us in closer touch with ourself, and others, and what ya need and want out of this old life, what is most important to us and just how precious life truely is. we need to know how to let our loved ones know, say it show it feel it and tell em how important they are to us to let them know. she done good to keep your everlovin goin so,s ya could do what ya wanted to do, eventually. she,s a strong woman too and i know you know it. but ya know, you done so good cause most would give up, and just let it be, but ya had a strong will, like my ma did. and she weren,t givin up either, even though she,d finally gotten towhere she was in the wheelchair when i was 14, on braces when i was little and a walkeer up till the chair. but she always was independent, and wasnt gonna loose that fer notih cause that was her strength. as with you. im so glad ya got to do the fishin thing and hope your still doin it. and dreamin of it. i use to take ma, my son. she loved it too. but i loved your appreciation fer your wife it sounds so good to hear a man say these words mean em and hold onto what he,s got his wife.and do things with her, share time. it reminds me of the song marty robbins use to sing, ya remember?? my woman my woman my wife??? he had a good HEART SOUL AND MIND TOO. MORE POWER TO YA. MARE GOD,S SPEED.
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